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#Grombre thoughts: Why many women are going grey

Wednesday February 20, 2019. 01:08 AM , from BoingBoing
I recently stumbled on the #grombre hashtag on Instagram, and ended up making the decision to grow out my white/grey/gray/silver/whatever? roots, myself.
I know it sounds like a trivial, silly thing, but hear me out. “Cover your roots” is a thing women (and now men!) hear all the time, and take for granted. Who really cares? Will I feel differently about myself if I stop? Do I do this because the world around me tells me that older women are useless and unattractive?
“My hair [has] been going gray since I was 32 and I just realized that having this kind of natural hair is a thing that we women can do without shame and my mind is exploding,” I wrote on Twitter this morning after thinking about it a few days, and scrolling through a lot of gray-haired womens' selfies. “I’m doing it.”
I wrote a few more thoughts about it on Twitter, and a lot of other women responded in ways that surprised me.
Below, my tweets, and some wonderful embracing-your-grey images and thoughts from others.

#grombre = very slowly organically 3D printing permanent desaturated highlights
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 18, 2019

My hair is been going gray since I was 32 and I just realized that having this kind of natural hair is a thing that we women can do without shame and my mind is exploding. I’m doing it.
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

The big thing that changed my mind was following some Instagram accounts where “regular” women, not models, not a product— who have realized this are showing pics of gray roots as they grow. I’ve never experienced a phenomenon like this on social media before and it’s really cool
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

It just never occurred to me. Many of the women in my family began going gray in their 20s or 30s, it was just always a thing that we always knew we had to hide. Such a silly thing, but the realization is so freeing!
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

The big mindblowing moment happened for me on Saturday. I just started poking around the #grombre hashtag on IG and 5 hours later my boyfriend asked me what I was still doing and I told him and he said oh it’ll be beautiful and I cried.
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

The responses to this thread are consistent with what I have experienced as I share my personal decision with close male friends and my partner. Men are uniformly supportive of it. Women are extremely uncomfortable with it. Socialization runs deep
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

Another thing that’s been special about watching this on social media: this is one “beauty trend” in which black, Asian, Latinx, and indigenous women (and other genders! But right now this is about women) can and do participate.
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

The one thing no one wants to be is an “old lady.” Because everyone knows that little old ladies, elderly biddies, grannies, are dismissible, powerless, invisible, make no impact on the world. A simple thing like hair color can flip that narrative internally in a powerful way.
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

When you are young, you are dismissed because you are a girl. When you are an adult woman, you’re dismissed because you’re too sexy, or not sexy enough. When you are 40 and older, you are dismissed because you are a gray haired menopausal hag. LMAO.
— Xeni Jardin (@xeni) February 19, 2019

I started going gray when I was 14. Embraced it in my 20s but then dyed it black for 8 years. I’m growing it now, since Nov! Fav #grombre accounts on IG: @ silvergirlmx, @ prettyshepherd, @ littlespottedfawn. They help me to stay committed through this awkward process! pic.twitter.com/pv5Frtaxz1
— Gillian Brockell (@gbrockell) February 19, 2019

indeed. i've been getting white hairs for years. it's just a part of getting older. when my mom finally stopped coloring her hair i was so proud of her (and it looks so cool in its white/gray ombre-ness). https://t.co/WLQ7mj6pUr
— Rachel Metz (@rachelmetz) February 19, 2019

If we can have sexy salt-and-pepper daddies, we can have salt-and-pepper mamas, too!
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